The following kinds of events in families might burden children in later
generations, because depending on the way they were dealt with, they
might lead to disruptions in the orders of the family system:
- Miscarriages, abortion, illness,
psychotic problems, early death.
- Disappearance, denial, exclusion or
detention of family members.
- Ill-treatment, crimes, violence,
alcohol and drug abuse.
- Incest, sexual abuse, problems around
sexual preferences.
- Fraud, betrayal, exploitation and suppression.
- Broken love relationships, divorces and
other separations.
- Life or means of existence have been
obtained at the cost of others.
- The parents who raised the child are not
the biological parents.
- War traumas, crimes of war.
When you want to set up your family constellation,
information about
such events in your family will be important.
